By Luke Marino
I did not know much about the 10-Week Ignatian Experience when I signed up for it. Although I have worked at the Murphy Center for Ignatian Spirituality since my first semester at Fairfield University and have seen people come in for appointments with their spiritual directors, I never really knew what happened during those sessions. However, as soon as I met my spiritual director at my first appointment, I knew I had made the right decision about signing up for the program through my Christian Spirituality class.
At my first appointment, my director greeted me warmly and, when she introduced herself, I saw how peaceful and happy she seemed. Once we sat down, I knew I was in a confidential space where I could safely be myself without having to worry about judgement. The experience is different for everyone because the directee is essentially in control of the conversation and can focus on whatever aspect of spirituality he or she chooses. I grew up in a very religious family, attending Catholic school my entire childhood, so I personally found myself focusing on the “where” and “how” God was working in my life. Once my director helped me identify times God had worked in my life in the past, I looked forward to the process of being able to recognize how He was continuing to work with me on a daily basis. As the weeks went on, I began noticing times where He was actively working in my life. Decisions became easier to make as I grew to understand the natural purpose of God’s will and His influence through others in my life.
Two Ignatian discerners (above) engaging in conversation. Photo courtesy of the Ignatian Spirituality Center.
My director introduced me to different prayers, poems, and techniques along with morning and nightly prayer routines that I still practice today. I had also been dealing with a personal issue in my prayer life for as long as I could remember, and I felt comfortable enough to share it with my director. I really felt that she understood what I was saying because she immediately came up with a solution that I put into practice that very night and I am glad to say it has worked great ever since! With the help of my director, I was able to get in touch with my personal spirituality on a deeper level and be more aware of God working in my life. I learned that God’s will is something truly magnificent.
The 10-Week Ignatian Experience really taught me to live in the present moment and to have gratitude for the blessings God has given me in my life.
Luke Marino is a member of the Class of 2022 at Fairfield University, majoring in English with minors in German and Business. He was born and raised in Delaware, grew up loving hockey, and is a die-hard Philly sports fan.
The cover photo (above) is featured courtesy of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church and School.